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Posted: August 2, 2011 in Friendship

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I reckon since I have nothing to do noe and is not sleepy stil, though I should be after two days of duty lol!

I just finished my final duty! It’s a good and not good thing but ord is imminent and I am so excited! Gotta start work and earn some cash to spend, Haha! Duty over means more days in unit? Perhaps I should slowly clear my off when it is appropriate. Maybe I should go for a holiday as well to clear my leave? I dunno… Low in cash so gotta work n work! LOL!

Sometimes it’s frustrating that you are trying to get over certain issues yet it keeps coming back to you again and again yet there is nothing you can do about it, I just hope that everything will be fine soon and all of us can be happy with the current status, at least that is what I hope for now… Although it is a bit weird and difficult to adjust as people will start to know and for people who do not know, it might be a bit awkward when they are teasing and not sure how I should react to it as well! I wun say that everyone really cares but even if no one does, at least I should try to feel more comfortable even if u feel uneasy, time will make everything ok and probably make things better and hopefully we will be able to work out fine in our new status, at least for now.

As for the other stuff, I can only say that certain things once complicated and changed, it may be difficult to change but me being me, the stubborn Aries that I am, I have tried and if it means that it has to stay status quo, there’s nothing I can do, so I can only just let time make the decision that if it’s meant that it has to be this way den I cannot do anything about it.

This is the case for relationship and friendship!

Enough of my rantings… Haha!
Just try to restore and stay positive and not think too much, things will get better and one will definitely get better as long as they are not easily reminded of the things that they do not wish to be reminded of unless they can be resolved in a way that they deem fit.

Happy Day to all! ūüôā

It seems that I have not updated my blog for quite some time now…
Somehow, I don’t really have the feel to do so. LOL!

I guess I will have to just delete away the Postaweek2011 thing as its quite hard to maintain since I seldom blog these days. Hahahahahaha!
Life has been alright and it has its ups and downs but generally, it has been good as everything has been going smoothly,apart from some quarrels and disputes here and there. It has since been resolved though…
Its hard to maintain friendships, much less make it maintain the way you want it to be like how it used to be…
I guess thats life…

Anyway, I am so excited for this coming week as every year around this time, I get to celebrate my DAY, as well as get the Wrestlemania mood as it always fallaround the same time. Hurrays!

Look to see/catch my WWE Wrestlemania predictions coming up soon!

Happy Day to all!

Its time for me to blog about my first clubbing experience about a week or so back!
Its gonna be a super long post. Its been a long time (few years back???) since I typed a long post so do bear with me…
I thought of doing a slideshow to save time but in the end I decided… Heck it, I am just going to blog about it since its the 1st time experience!

I went “clubbing” for the 1st time with Cousie and Chao, yup, just the 3 of us as cousie is interested to go…
Its the 1st time for cousie and I but Chao have been there a few times.
We really braved through many many obstacles before we can go there in the end.

1) Cousie busy
2) Baby busy, as we wanted to go together with her as well
3) Cousie unwell/cannot go

The list goes on and on…


We still made it to clubbing in the end



So, my 1st clubbing experience… NOT!!!

Because the worse has yet to come!!!
My cousie didn’t know that she needs to bring her IC out! Tsk…
Her IC is with her mum and the person at the club¬†only allows those with ICs to enter… =(

So, she decided to go home and¬†we wanted to change place but in the end, she went home…
Chao and I went in and I had no feel at all!!!
I guess two guys dancing with no mood and bad songs is a no no!!!
AND I am not high too as I have not drank any alcohol yet so HOW TO DANCE!!!

We decided to get cousie back as she missed the last train too.
We went to the¬†one of the pubs there to chill…
Chao being Chao, really wanted to go in and dance a bit so he went there alone for like 20 minutes¬†in between… -_-”’

We had a great time using our Hp there, using the Wifi at the pub.
Its really an epic moment, whereby three of us were using the phone together at one moment.
Damn funny that scene!

Anyway, we drank vodka sprite, which is very very bland and diluted!!!
I got a bit high towards the end as you will see from the photos later that my face became very very red like “Ang Ku Kuey”… lol.
But then again…¬†my face¬†and neck and ear area will get red very easily once I take alcohol so…

Take a look at the pictures/photos taken below:
My hp camera not good, hence the blurredphotos…

                                                           Picture of the place!

                                                                   Nice Atmosphere to chill!

¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Looks like crystal eh… Its ice la!!! Haha!


                                                                     Not nice, Take again! Tsk!

¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† On our way back…

¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† The ultimate “highness”… Both of us very high… Reach peak!

Towards the end, all of us were quite high! Cousie and I were laughing non-stop…
She keep hitting me la.
Chao was like half walking half dancing…
Super got mood to dance even while walking…
Thats when all of us wanted to dance but…
Oh well!!!

This is totally random but before we reach back home, we were super super hungry.
Hence, we had supper at the coffee shop!
There were not many choices asmost of the stalls were closed at around 4am…


I ate fishball noodles for lunch and dinner and supper that day!!!
Haha!!! I had cravings for that the entire day. =)

Technically, I have been to clubbing once but maybe not so totally, as I only entered for a while…
So, I am looking forward to the next one with more people.
Hope Baby, JJ, etc can make it the next time round. =]

Happy Day to all!!!

If you have noticed while reading this blog, you would have noticed that the English in many of the posts is damn “CUI”/cannot make it. Its not¬†because my English is bad ok, its because¬†I did not want to use a lot of time to edit the posts as if I am writing a report. I prefer to “pen” my feelings down fast and in a more casual way, which is why the¬†English standard here is far from my actual A2 standard¬†ok!!!

A good example will be 2 posts back I think…
I was reading¬†it, then I saw “most properly, ……..”
I was thinking at that moment, since when did I type this…
Shouldn’t¬†it be “most probably”?!
I always find lots of English/Vocab/Grammar errors in my posts when I read back… lol.

Anyway, time for another random moment!
I saw this picture from baby’s phone. HAHA, so I¬†“BUMP” it into mine and decided to put it up here.
Its quite cute eh!

Recently, I am playing this facebook application/game called CITYVILLE!!!
Its been a long long time since I actually played a facebook game.
Its quite fun but annoying as the system keeps “hanging” and I will have to redo the things that I have done before it “hang”. Its frustrating at times. Hence, I played it occasionally now.
Nevertheless, its still¬†a “quite fun” game to entertain you if you are really bored but through the game, you can interact a bit with your friends too. =)


I am waiting for April…
Not because its my birthday only, BUT…

REASON: I wanna recontract my phone line!
Tentatively, my plan is to get a HTC Touch 2 as I find it to be quite good, though everyone around me keeps discouraging me to get that model, saying how bad it is! =(
I reckon since I have Itouch, there is no need for me to spend a hefty sum on Iphone and furthermore, I can use baby’s phone if there is any applications I need…
So, I will go with HTC Touch 2…
Then, you must be thinking about Blackberry right?
I have thought about it before as well but the kepboard style keypad is the same as my Nokia phone hence, I thought I might as well get a touch screen phone that I can use in camp as well. =)

Some time back, I am very into this English song by Hedley, called “PERFECT”, thanks to my bunkmate who sings it almost everyday then…
I listen and listen and listen… From neutral¬†–> a little liking¬†–>listening¬†to¬†it to sleep for a period of time… lol.

Do listen to it but dun feel emo k. Its a nice song!!!
Here goes:

                           Must listen to it k!!!

Alright, its time to sleep after listening to the song… Hahahaa!
Good Night!


Well, its 4am now¬†yet I am still awake surfing the net. Its probably¬†not a good thing but since I am awake, I guess I should do some thinking. I was browsing thru the wordpress posts and I came across this feature that asks us to participate in a Post-a-day or Post-a-week kind of program to encourage one to blog more often. This is something interesting but perhaps I will not join in for now, maybe¬†later…

There is one topic in there that asks, “How do you¬†define “FRIEND”?
I¬†suppose many people have different interpretations of the word “FRIEND” and different kind of expectation towards their friends. Hence, this is a interesting¬†topic to discuss about as its quite sensitive at the same time, since people seldom talk about these “closer” topics these days, as relationships tend to be more “on the surface” kind, which is not a good thing.

For me, FRIEND is a person that have to exist and everyone will more or less have to come across many kind of friends but only a certain type will “click” with them.

I feel that a friend is someone that¬†you know, and communicate well with.¬†He/she is someone that¬†you will think about¬†and interact with at different stages of your life.¬†They are also people that are very difficult for you to maintain contact with, as people tend¬†to forget their “older” friends when they move on to another stage of their life when they get to know newer friends. It is more of a cycle thing and that is the reality of life.¬†=( sad to¬†say…

However, there are also those friends that people keep in contact with and would meet up often to have some fun!!!
It really takes effort to maintain a friendship and effort for people to really understand their friends andhow they feel. Even if people knows how their friend are feeling, they may not actually show it out due to people being more conservative nowadays. Whoa, I can only say that as a person matures, their perception on relationships would change, hopefully for the better, that they will start to appreciate things more and realise that they should not take many things for granted, including their friends.  

I guess friends are buddies that are always with you when you need them and vice versa, and those who are part of your life in all stages of it – A more general and correct answer. =)

Good Night!!!
Have a happy day ahead!!!!!!! =]